a scream for help

I call this a scream for help!

I call it that coz we all need help when it comes to love and marriage issues, I mean come on who doesn’t?

We live in Egypt which means we live in an eastern society with a lot of traditions, some of 'em are really old and pointless nowadays but not to our families, they grew up believing in those traditions and they will never be flexible enough to accept the change so it's up our responsibility to try to find a point  where we can meet; but what if we couldn't find that point…??!

For me it's kindda impossible to find it coz my dad is stubborn and so sure of what he thinks so we always have issues, I mean lots and lots of issues specially when it comes to marriage. For him my marriage is a goal and he will never rest till he achieves that goal, for me, my life is the goal, my career, my future, my study…and so on, I mean marriage is something I wanna do at some point but not now and not like this, how could anybody marry someone they never know not to mention the love part.

They say love is like a seed and it grows by time and care but what will happen when we can't find this seed? How will I ever love someone after marrying him, I don't need to have the Romeo & Juliet love story but at least I have the right to like the dude am gonna spend the rest of my life with and if I didn't feel him before being engaged then I will never feel him and we'll be like robots. We'll do what we have to do and that's it, there will be no emotions or feelings and life will suck even more and we'll wake someday finding that we made the wrong decision and it will be too late and even if it wasn't too late, like I said before we're living in a stupid society so we can't make any break up decisions easily which means the end.

Love, respect, and passion are the most important elements in any relationship, without these three we won't be able to take life's bullshit and seriously it's the simplest human right, the right to choose the person you'll spend the rest of your life with so please please don't ignore how you feel and think about your hearts and let's help each other and never surrender and if I did someday promise that you won't.