We live our lives hoping that we're doing the right thing and wishing that every decision we make won't have any negative consequences; but unfortunately sometimes we make the wrong decision and keep doing stupid mistakes, one after another.
Some of these mistakes are fixable, others are simply not and those unfixable mistakes are the issue coz u can't take 'em back, you'll just keep carrying the burden till u realize one day that you are exhausted. Sometimes our families or even friends do some of these mistakes, they give themselves the right to decide for us thinking that they are 100% right just because they are old which is totally not true, they cant be right all the time and they can't decide for us because if they did and that decision was wrong, we'll never forgive them.
I honestly dunno how can a mother decide for her own child whom to marry, and what really pisses me that she decides that he'll marry his cousin or her best friend's daughter and she keeps saying that and one day the poor guy wakes up to find himself stuck in a life he didn't choose and even if the girl is great, he won't be happy because he doesn't love her and he didn’t get to choose; she'll always be a burden he carries. I wonder how his mother would feel when she sees her son unhappy, acting all the time and lost, will she be happy coz she ruined his life???
Seriously parents should think very well of what their kids want, I mean my mum & dad may think someone is good and he maybe good but that doesn't mean that I have to accept him and they must understand that.
We live once, we love once, we die once and that's why we shouldn't waste our lives with the wrong person.
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